Sorry for bumping an old thread, but do agree that activity is rather slow, but I guess there is something to ponder here; quality not quantity. I've been on some forums in the past where they are many members, and associated with that is the crud you don't want to deal with.
Here in Sydney, finding any gay looners is impossible, which is rather interesting in a city of 5 million.
I would like to find some gay friends some day to share some loons, but more preferably to be sharing some beach balls and sticks, but it's something that will take patience. I mainly come to such places to have fun and talk bout stuff, if that leads off to some meet ups, then awesome. But then if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world either, I just roll with the flow, no drama.