I often see 1 or 2 members online, and many more guests (currently 17). To all of the guests, I say make an account. Sign up, share your story, ask questions. I joined a few years ago and it was one of the best things I could have done. It really is 100% free, with no emails or advertisements that your friends/family could find (unless you do something like leave the page open). Whether you're a looner, or just trying to understand someone who is, join the forum. It's worth it.