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  • LoonLover1999
    • Mar 2024

    Help with Control

    How can you control yourself?

    I'm kinda embarrassed to say that once I finish a session I need to go again when I recharge.

    That is not healthy and I'm concerned. I didn't want to have this conversation with anybody besides people like me.

    So please tell me how I can control my balloon urges.
  • Meililoon
    aka lyckr
    • Sep 2014
    • 700

    #2
    Re: Help with Control

    Keep your mind busy with something else. Works for me at least. If I'm bored, I often start browsing for looner stuff and then one thing leads to another. However, if I manage to keep myself occupied with something, I can go quite a while before even thinking about balloons or masturbating.

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    • LoonLover1999

      #3
      Re: Help with Control

      Unfortunately I get bored easily and can lose focus at a moments notice. My only hobbies are gaming and fishing but I can't do fishing yet and games can get boring easily.

      I'm probably so horny coz I'm still 17 til July and stil a virgin.

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      • gayloonfcker
        Senior Member
        • Jan 2015
        • 176

        #4
        Re: Help with Control

        I just lose control when I'm with balloons and have 'private me' time. I can only imagine if I find a partner in crime how I'll act. hahaha

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        • LoudPopper
          Senior Member
          • Jan 2016
          • 228

          #5
          Re: Help with Control

          Not to undermine or invalidate how you feel, but how do you know that your urges and drive are unhealthy? Do your desires and drive create major disruption or any problems with your day to day function? Or do you feel that way because you may be feeling guilt or some other uncomfortable emotion regarding you desires and balloon play? I carried around a lot of guilt and discomfort with my fetish when I was your age. My parents caught me multiple times with balloons, which didn't help the cause. Plus, I have an extremely high sex drive, and I had some difficulty controlling it in my teens as well. But the good news is that you're still young! There's still plenty of time and your body and brain is still growing and developing so that whole part of your life is still due to change and evolve. Over time, I've had multiple partners and eventually was fortunate enough explore fantasies and dissipate my sexual energy with partners over time. Don't fret, friend, you've still got time. At your age, unless you cannot function from day-to-day, or you or somebody is being hurt by your desires, it's harmless in my opinion. Embrace who you are and celebrate your sexuality! Much happiness with your balloons, friend!

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          • LoonLover1999

            #6
            Re: Help with Control

            I can function in a day to day life but quite often my urges go nuts. Some have one or two sessions a month whereas I have like 4 a day. That many orgasm a day can't be good for me. If I try and stop it makes me more horny. Once it became so bad that I was so stiff down there it was starting to hurt.

            I have a session then in 5 mins I want to go again. I can't shoot anything, it's all dry shots and maybe that's the problem. I have only orgasmed for like a month now, I just can't seem to be able to cum which is odd for a teenager.

            Sorry for the graphic detail there.

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            • Micks101
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2017
              • 245

              #7
              Re: Help with Control

              Originally posted by LoudPopper
              Not to undermine or invalidate how you feel, but how do you know that your urges and drive are unhealthy? Do your desires and drive create major disruption or any problems with your day to day function? Or do you feel that way because you may be feeling guilt or some other uncomfortable emotion regarding you desires and balloon play? I carried around a lot of guilt and discomfort with my fetish when I was your age. My parents caught me multiple times with balloons, which didn't help the cause. Plus, I have an extremely high sex drive, and I had some difficulty controlling it in my teens as well. But the good news is that you're still young! There's still plenty of time and your body and brain is still growing and developing so that whole part of your life is still due to change and evolve. Over time, I've had multiple partners and eventually was fortunate enough explore fantasies and dissipate my sexual energy with partners over time. Don't fret, friend, you've still got time. At your age, unless you cannot function from day-to-day, or you or somebody is being hurt by your desires, it's harmless in my opinion. Embrace who you are and celebrate your sexuality! Much happiness with your balloons, friend!
              Totally agree with this - it's definitely not unhealthy to express your sexual desires. Just because you may do it frequently doesn't mean it's abnormal or wrong. If it was stopping you from living your day-to-day life then I'd probably have a think about it more. Otherwise, enjoy it as much as you want! It's always good for your physical/mental health to satisfy your desires when you feel like it, and you're at the age where you naturally need to satisfy them more often.

              I remember when I was 17, I had 4 to 5 sessions a day on occasion hahaha but never did it stop me from living my life - going to school, doing chores etc. and to me, that is perfectly fine then!

              Also remember that relationships can come and go, but this part of you will never leave - which is a great thing and I reckon it's good to get the most enjoyment out of it as possible

              Chin up mate, you ain't doing anything wrong!

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              • LoonLover1999

                #8
                Re: Help with Control

                I just want to say thanks to everybody who has given me advise in this thread. This is exactly why I joined this forum, to be able to talk about issues only loners would understand.

                Call me corny but I'm starting to feel that the members on this forum are becoming a kind of second family.

                I thank you and my balloons do too😄

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                • Micks101
                  Senior Member
                  • Jan 2017
                  • 245

                  #9
                  Re: Help with Control

                  just remember it ain't unhealthy, it's natural and even good for ya!

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                  • LoonLover1999

                    #10
                    Re: Help with Control

                    What health benefits can a balloon fetish even possibly have?

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                    • gayloonfcker
                      Senior Member
                      • Jan 2015
                      • 176

                      #11
                      Re: Help with Control

                      Seriously, whatever makes you happy (to the extent that it's not illegal or hurting anyone obviously) just enjoy it. Balloons are harmless.

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                      • Micks101
                        Senior Member
                        • Jan 2017
                        • 245

                        #12
                        Re: Help with Control

                        Originally posted by LoonLover1999
                        What health benefits can a balloon fetish even possibly have?
                        It's just a natural thing to have sexual urges, like hunger and thirst. Like any form of intercourse or masturbation, the health benefits are well known - relieves stress, improves emotional wellbeing and can even be a good cardio workout haha

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                        • BellesBalloons
                          Junior Member
                          • Apr 2016
                          • 9

                          #13
                          Re: Help with Control

                          Originally posted by Micks101
                          It's just a natural thing to have sexual urges, like hunger and thirst. Like any form of intercourse or masturbation, the health benefits are well known - relieves stress, improves emotional wellbeing and can even be a good cardio workout haha
                          Except porn of course.

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                          • Heliumlooner
                            Member
                            • Feb 2017
                            • 88

                            #14
                            Re: Help with Control

                            If anything this will probably lead to you getting bored of balloons, maybe moving on to some other type of inflatable or maybe getting bored of inflatibles all together . It's what happend to me.

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